So coach, what your saying is I can't lead nor shouldn't. I should just leave her with the possibility of a positive outcome for this marriage if she is willing to do what is necessary to help get it to that point. Should I just tell her that or should I wait til she seeks me out to tell her that?
no that is leading. you are showing her the path and you are on it. you are giving her the opportunity to join you on the journey if she chooses.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
