Pookie, another question. Earlier u said I should say something like I can lead us out of this but I need u to do x about OM. Is me telling her that I can lead us not pushing her to come back or the ultimate end which is getting back together which she has said she didn't know if she wanted that within the last two weeks.
There are just so many directions to go in which is what seems to keep me from grasping the whole picture.
She wants clarity for her feelings. You can provide it by leading. You are also asking for respect and honor.
She will find that attractive. Wouldn't you agree that a strong, decisive, honorable man with the plan would be attractive?
I'll bet she will contact you today or over the weekend the latest.