Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Originally Posted By: bustorama

YES (with certain commitments from her -- attending retro, agreeing to regular date nights, attending MC on affair recovery, etc.)


Well I want to be married to my wife but only if she wears lingerie 24/7 and gets rug burns every night. And we live in a chocolate castle with ponys.


Heh, point taken. I say the above, because I am afraid of us ending up where we started.

BUT, I get your point that if she is sincere, then she will herself want to do the "work" of reconciliation.

Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Do not say it as a trick.


Got it. Yes, for me, I want to reconcile. No double-negatives, no melty man.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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