Not sure to what you are specifically referring but I felt weird about the situation overall and the topics discussed (there were other topics).

In some ways what I heard confirmed what I believe has happened (mlc) but at the same time it was difficult to hear the slight revisions of our history. I felt foolish for hoping there was a chance at reconcilliation nearly on as I now realize she was "done" with us. There was also reference to what happened to our D in the convo which was painful to hear discussed again (one topic not mentioned above).

I conclude that in her eyes I have moved from unwanted husband, to financial separation enemy, to close friend, family member and confidant (throughout this entire process she has confided in me from time to time).

Additional weirdness:

What had been house which I recently bought from her still has lots of her things in it (OMH took everything belonging to him). She wanted to have an alarm system installed so the kids and I will "be safe" (she's paying for it). I agreed and she spent half a day there earlier this week there while it was installed by the serviceman. She cleaned several rooms and straightened up, even puting a few of my things away. I was really shocked by that.

It's a fine madnesss.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13