Hmmm, re-reading the thread, I see a better answer than not being sure about reconciling would be something like what gr8, futureunknown, coach, and others said, "not going back to the way things were" "things would need to be different"
Those are not pushaways/nails in coffins, nor melty man responses. Still open to them, but ball hit back in their court to do the work/pursuit??
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