YES (with certain commitments from her -- attending retro, agreeing to regular date nights, attending MC on affair recovery, etc.)
Are you saying that if I WANT to reconcile, then I should not claim I am unsure about reconciling? But at the same time not to respond all melty-man and out of proportion to her questions about it?
I ask the above because in gr8's case, his response of a book did not seem out of proportion to me, but she seemed to retreat nonetheless. Or in other examples of when WAS "tests" to see if spouse is still a backup option by broaching idea of recon but then retreating when they see you are still an "option."
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
