thanks I agree and that is why do not intend to press anything. I am being detached. I want the weight of her decision and her actions to be felt by her so she can make a decision that is hers to make. I am prepared for the worse now.
I will expect the boundry to be maintained and verified of course. I am letting her come to me with a reasonable time to consider it.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10