How should I proceed if she turns around and says she will me my boundry and will commit to the marriage counseling?

I am not getting ahead of myself but I am thinking of that outcome. IF it happens I am planning on telling her I need some time to think about what she is saying. I dont plan on going melty on it.. I want her to be curious and stay interested in success.

thoughts?

M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10