[quote]1. Wait for her to contact you, if she doesn't, you have your answer - don't pursue
Absolutely agree.
However, she has to know she CAN approach you to contact you. Not in the "All in" way futureunknown has warned you of.
But letting her know she CAN, and being very cautious afterward, letting her take the burden of initiating contact and the burden of proof of her intentions...you'll discovery if her intentions are real.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
