What I'm suggesting is, perhaps adjusting your approach so that she's forced to solve it more frequently.
I will need help as I make adjustments along the way, so I appreciate your opinions. At this time, I'm thinking it's fine to break my plans every now and then, if she's having an exceptionally bad day or needs an ear for a specific problem. In general, I think it's best to keep my plans, even if she chooses not to attend. There are other nights we can go to dinner, or she can wait until I get home. I have to assess the urgency of the situation, and if I think spending that time with her will help her to move forward.
She has a job interview on Friday for a part-time Accounting position. I emailed her a reminder about the smoking cessation class coming up on 11/8 at our fitness facility. There is a dance workshop at our studio tonight, which I'm planning on going to.
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