1 she wished we would have changed things/ not gotten to this point. 2 she wishes we were doing our normal life like hanging out with friends. 3. She felt the need to tell me about how she didn't sleep good the night I told her that we were to have no communication.
Three opportunities to validate. When you validate her feelings it creates a connection, she will feel "seen" (she matters to you), and show you are listening.
How could you have validated her when she said those things?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
