Arnie, everything that she said yesterday leads me to the conclusion that she wishes everything was different, feels guilt b/c instead of working on things she just left, and part ofme really agrees with pookie that she is wanting me to take the lead in all this. I just don't know how I can take the lead without it seem like I'm pressuring her.
The big 3 things that stand out to me as her reaching out for sympathy or change are: 1 she wished we would have changed things/ not gotten to this point. 2 she wishes we were doing our normal life like hanging out with friends. 3. She felt the need to tell me about how she didn't sleep good the night I told her that we were to have no communication.
