It really was not a big deal. Things happen and plans can change. We are both busy professionals and I know how the day can turn out to be different within minutes.
Really? Wow. That surprises me to hear you say that. Honestly... your responses and reactions sounded quite 'cold' below, so I was curious.
Why does this surprise you?
I am givin her the space she needs, but I will not be a doormat and run home to take care of the house and the pets with nothing in return.
That has been her biggest CB. She has abused the conveniece of me enabling her.
So my behavior was cold, maybe. Annoyed, definately.
She has been becoming better lately and one of the ways she has expressed that has been taking me out to dinner if I had to change my own plans to accomodate her busy schedule.
That was the deal last night. She told me that she was going to be late and that afterwards she would by me a dinner out.
She failed. Dicpiline has never been a strong side of her.
Maybe I was too harsh, but I am working on getting my respect back and trying to recover from my doormat status.
