Thanks for the replies and the steps(procedure) to begin piecing.

I am frustrated that she doesn't "get it". I guess this is how the WAS feels before they leave.

I do have some boundaries in mind already. Not sure if she will abide by them but that's her decision to make. There what I need to have a healthy R.

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learn and use the tools


Agreed. you can have the "bestest" tool in the world but of you don't know how to use it, it is useless.

thanks again all, I feel better already.

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