I understand where you are coming from, if it comes up again I will try your suggestion. Rob, I would love to copy and paste what you type, problem is I am a man of few words and a lot of shoulder shrugging.
This time on my own, has given me the chance to truly look back at my M, and see all the things I have done, good and bad. As well as what she has done in our M, good and bad. I dont think I want it anymore. There are times I miss the good stuff, but i look back and see the bad out weighs the good.