Hey pookie, funny, I don't see you being controlling in this example. I see resentment.
It almost sounds like there's part of the story missing? What do you mean blew you off? Do you mean she stood you up?
If so, why didn't you just tell her that her actions hurt your feelings, rather than texting her what you did? Your interaction with her at the house sounds more like pent-up hurt feelings coming out as resentment and coldness.
It really was not a big deal. Things happen and plans can change. We are both busy professionals and I know how the day can turn out to be different within minutes.
I have been working on the CB lately. That's why I did what I did. Yes, there is resentment because I want to see if she is working hard enough to stop the crap she got used to for past 6 months.
Other than that there is not much to resent. She is slowly coming around at her own slow pace. I am not going to rush her.
