Another long term relationship bombed #2

[FindingMyVoice]

Hey pookie, funny, I don't see you being controlling in this example. I see resentment.

It almost sounds like there's part of the story missing? What do you mean blew you off? Do you mean she stood you up?

If so, why didn't you just tell her that her actions hurt your feelings, rather than texting her what you did? Your interaction with her at the house sounds more like pent-up hurt feelings coming out as resentment and coldness.