time to ramp up your GAL list. get busy, be social, throw a party - post it on FB, join a club, play at the park......
when you are busy, in demand and taking care of yourself it is pure catnip. when your wife sees others find value you in you it changings her feelings. handle it
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.