Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[HopelessInLove]

I agreed with her that it could be viewed by her as manipulative, I did not see it that way. I wanted to be back in the house with my kids. She had not wanted me back into the house before. I told her I would give her time, but I wanted to move back into house because of the kids. I gave her time, talked to L and did not want to lose rights to my kids. Manipulate her? Not to make her want me or make her choose or to get power over her. Kids, yes.