Arnie, I feel that I somewhat validated her. I told her she was right and that us working on this earlier would have been a good idea, that we ignored each other and both made mistakes. I just didn't know how to take what she was saying and translate it into the future. In the past I had been the one asking to go to counseling etc, but I didn't know how to take what she was saying and say well we should do this without sounding pushy or whatever.
