Wow, 40. As hard as this is, it sounds like you are doing all of the right things. Document everything. Take pictures. Dates, times, etc.

You are not dealing with a sane person. She really is in la-la land. She doesn't realize that she is giving you all of the ammunition that you need.

I, too, am sorry that you have to go so long without seeing your kids. Great idea on the "secret" phone. Stay strong and stay smart.

Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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