Hey guys, it's me gr8 and I was looking for a little insight about the WAW wanting to come back to work on M
Last month I received a call from W stating she wanted me. It was a half-assed attempt to "talk" about us. I asked her what she wants and while crying she said "I want you". I was calm and didn't jump at the opportunity. I told her I was in a happy place now and won't go back to the crappy M we had before.
I also said to her " I have seen you over the past year and you are miserible and that's unattractive. I asked her what makes her happy. She said she didn't know. I told her to find out what that is.
The following exchange with the kids I gave her a copy of the SSM. She started to reading it and texted me two days later saying she should finish the book before we talked. I agreed.
present day and my confusion:
It's been a month and she has not contacted me to talk. I won't bring up R talk. I am still out GAL and enjoying life.
For those who's W want to work on M , after the initial talk about workin on M, did your W's contact you more and wanted to R talk?
Or did they wait awhile before bringing it up again?
I am pulling away more now and still refuse to chase her. I am losing faith in my W that she doesn't want to do the work.
Any suggestions on how to proceed??
Thanks, gr8
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