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Do you think you can listen to him discuss “stuff” and no overreact? Can you listen to him say I want a D but not respond or say…”I’m sorry you feel that way”?


Sure. I can definitely try my best.

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Have you figured out what you would need to maintain you and the kids? I believe that you work currently – is your income enough to maintain your current standard of living?

Me and the kids and (2) dogs...including the mortgage, car payment, etc... alot. No way Jose, my income is not nearly enough. The biggest advantage to me working is health benefits. Without them, because he owns a business we'd be paying $1,300 a month for the four of us. With me working (Thank God) we only pay around $400 a month. I'm not sure what we need to do at this point. Lose our pants on selling the house with the market the way it is. I don't know - but these are things we need to discuss.

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Can you try another therapist?

I could, but I really, really, really want to see the guy that has been working with my H for the past 4 weeks. I think it would help ME alot to talk to someone who knows who I am referring to when I talk about our situation. So, I will wait until I can get into see him.

H texts me this morning "Good morning...what's our family Dr. #...I'm all f'd up"

I wanted to reply with "My friend google knows" but didn't.


Me-40 H-41
M: 10 yrs T: 12
S9/D5
ILYBINILWY - Separated: 01/06
Reconciled: 08/06
H depressed again: 02/10
Separated again: 9/17/10