Next time she expresses any concern, turn what she says into a question and repeat it back to her (it validates her at the same time it gives her a chance to explain herself).
Sorry to hijack, but . . . . . Oh man! I'm using this in my call tomorrow. In fact, this is my goal for the call. Ignore my need for "closure" (I've never believed in it and anyway,I won't get it from a phone call no matter what) but leave her wondering about her own thoughts. Force Ask, her to explain her own thoughts.
Thanks TH!
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
