Also, H took away my credit cards several times over the weekend. Last time being on Monday. He takes them and then gives them back when I have to do some shopping that he doesn't want to do. One of them in in my name and I can have him removed. I also have a credit card he knows nothing about.

He tells me his L told him to do it, but he doesn't want to. His L also told him to take away my cell phone, but he doesn't want to do that.

C said he needed to give them back. I don't know if he should or not--I am not wanting him back really. He filed--my friends tell me I will never be sorry that he did that.

Does not asking for them back send that message? I think so. I think it unnerves him....

I may not want him back, but I don't mind that he is doing some soul searching. And if it does unnerve him, well, to me that is a good thing!!!