Originally Posted By: Pensacolabroken
wow advice all over the map. Some recommend backing off, others recommend moderatation, other recommend total kick out..

I have the boundry in place. She understands it.



I don't see these as contradictory. You laid down your boundary. You can compromise on some things (i.e. your kid) but not on the OM. If she makes that crack about "doing it for the right reasons" you might ask her exactly what those are, clearly vows are not a good enough reason.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011