WAW 20 years and wants out

[TimeHeals]

10 bucks says he won't do it. I thought maybe he's getting it yesterday. Wrong. That's what I get

The problem with 75% ego identification and 25% identifying with your emotions is that you never get out of react mode while your ego and your emotions are what is driving you all of the time.

To put it another way: your wife could leave, your house could burn down and be uninsured, and so on, and most of what consitutes life would remain unchanged, but your ego and your emotions might be telling you that you'd be better jumping off a cliff.

Nevermind your health, all that big, beautiful world out there, and the danged things there are to endlessly fascinate you if you just open your mind and your senses to the rest of life's experiences.

She isn't sure this is what she wants? OK, no big deal. The leaves are changing, and isn't fall beautiful? What is there to see that you have never seen within a 3 hour drive of where you are now?

Get out and live life, and tell her if she isn't sure, then she should leave, and it's OK.