I really got no where with her and her OM, other then she said I know IF and I am not giving you false home but IF we stay married I will have to make some changes about my friend.
She says the reason she has not dropped him from FB and still maintains him as a friend is because her friends have pulled back and she wants to keep the friends she has left. She also say I am controlling her by demanding she drop him as a friend, but she understands how I feel and knows she will have to drop him if we work on our marriage.
She also said I am not screwing him..
Now I am not sure if I push harder or relax on her a bit.
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She says I am trying to control her.
She opened more about him then she has. I told her it is terribly disrespectful the way you communicate with a man instead of your husband.
So she made some compromises and for the sake of my son, I made some.
Am I playing it a little better?
"OK, instead of killing the whole baby, I will only saw the baby in half."
No, I do not think you are doing this correctly. Some things cannot be compromised. Have you read "Hold Onto Your N.U.T.S.?" These would be NUTS.
