We told our son together and it went pretty well. Despite our problems we parent well together and we supported each other.
No wI am unsure how to move forward.
I am done unless her behavior changes. Obviously she says she is done to.
THis morning though she told our son that she didn't think this was going to happen that it happened by accident. That she had been thinking about it bt util I found out about the other guy she wasn't planning on acting on it.
I guess I go back to working on myself. I would like to reconcile but I am not going to tell her that. I have to wait until she approaches me. My friends all think that reality is about to hit her full force in the face as she slowly gets cut of from my purse strings and she tries to figure out how to make it on her own.
One thing is for certain I have allowed to much she to just happen. Her behavior is totally unacceptable and needs to change. That said I don't know if she'll ever come around (not that I am going to wait for it or ask) even though several of my friends think she will once the real world starts beating her down.
I just go back to working my program and doing my own thing. I suppose thats the last resort technique.
