I am not sure what I can do to rebuild her trust in me. I told her I am done turning over rocks looking for evidence. I also told her that I am completely transparent. She can access my phone, my email or my FB whenever she wants.
I also have not seperated bank accounts or revoked my Power of Attorney. So I am still showing her that I trust her with the finances.
I am remaining firm on the Boundry of NC with this guy. She needs to decide. I told her she is choosing a "Friend" from the last 2 months over a Marriage and friendship that has lasted over 25 years. (20 years married but knew her 5 years before).
She has to come to me. I am not persuing anymore and I am detaching.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10