You and I are in nearly the same place. What you are asking for is not too much. It is the minimum.
However, she probably does not trust you either. Can you think of ways to build her trust in you?
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011