Hey flowmom, I am glad you are having fun! It doenst matter how anybody calls it, if you agree or not, these are rebound relationships and I hope you are lucky enough to have one develope into something more if that's what you want. It sure sounds fishy to me to think of a life potential with one guy the one day and then go ahead and start dating "seriously" the other guy... So..., can you be responsible while dating? Hugs K