Oh thanks gals. It's been a weird couple days. For once I did not cave to H's pressure the lawyers told me I have every legal right not to let S go to H's apt. outside our regularly agreed upon times. So I refused his emails, forwarded them to my dad. When H came here for his usual visit tonight I had dad by my side and H was sweet as pie. I did it. I was terrified but it was ok.
Lawyer still working on my motion. It's going to be a big package so she doesn't want to rush things. She is on it and very responsive to me. I am relieved to have this support and not be bullied into things I don't want anymore.
