she said I know IF and I am not giving you false home but IF we stay married I will have to make some changes about my friend.
And you were OK with this?
Turn it around and tell me how this sounds to you.
Here's the setup: you meet a nice young woman, and you are sleeping with her, so you go to your wife and you say... "If we stay married---and I don't want to give you false hope--I'm probably going to have stop sleeping with my girlfriend".
How does that sound to you now?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-