WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

Not mind reading, she demanded to know why I am getting legal representation if she is.

She looked at some apt.. cant afford them.

For the sake of our son I agreed to be loose on the time table for now, but she must discuss her OM and I needed to know how we could start to rebuild trust.

I am thinking I may have more of a MLC then a WAW.

I am trying to balance the meanie attitude like Serenity clued in on with reason instead of emotion.

I really got no where with her and her OM, other then she said I know IF and I am not giving you false home but IF we stay married I will have to make some changes about my friend.

She says the reason she has not dropped him from FB and still maintains him as a friend is because her friends have pulled back and she wants to keep the friends she has left. She also say I am controlling her by demanding she drop him as a friend, but she understands how I feel and knows she will have to drop him if we work on our marriage.

She also said I am not screwing him..

Now I am not sure if I push harder or relax on her a bit.

She said she is 90 percent on the divorce road.. and that I pushed her farther away yesterday with my demand she leave.

I am confused now.

She said she is committed to Marriage Counseling next week and will go a session at a time for now.

For her weekend coming up, she said she was only going to the Girls Night and cancelled the Saturday night over... she said she was pissed she was doing that. I told her I appreciated that.

I also told her I would like us to work on rebuilding trust. Day at a time and I would like her to let me know when she is contact with TKD guy.. she said he FB's her once in a while and she is not going to tell me everytime he contacts her.. I told her back again that HE is a Problem and she needs to help me learn trust again....

She says I am trying to control her.

She opened more about him then she has. I told her it is terribly disrespectful the way you communicate with a man instead of your husband.

So she made some compromises and for the sake of my son, I made some.

Am I playing it a little better?

this sucks.