As for seeing any other women...you should indeed hold off if there is a chance that it could hurt your case.
One ugly thing to keep in mind is this unconstitutional law called VAWA (violence against women act) that "girly-man" Joe Biden was largely responsible for during the Clinton years. You may already be aware of it through fathers rights groups. It was meant to protect women from violent men, but some lawyers and women have abused it by falsely claiming they feel threatened and then they have a huge advantage in the legal system. Phyllis Schlafly has written some very good articles about why this is unconstitutional legislation that needs to be re-worked so as to not make men second class citizens in divorce.
