still get twinges of desire to beat myself up a little bit now and then.
Ya can't change the past....BUY you sure as hell can change/write YOUR future! These feeling of guilt, remorse, sorrow about things that you did in the past will from time to time come back. In one way, they are good IMO - they can be used as a reminder of 1) just of far you have come and 2) a reminder of past behaviors that you remember not to go back to.
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Kicked a puppy, beat a co-worker, and found a burial site for OM. JUST KIDDING! Bad joke.
Not a bad joke to me...wanna hear my bad joke...
Come to CT with your shovel and help me dig my hole and I'll go up to your neck of the woods and help you. Now that buddy is a bad joke - LOL.
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Our first Mediation appointment is tomorrow
Try and center yourself before the meeting. Your emotions may be all of the place dude - try as best you can NOT to let them make you committ to something that you may regret later.
You know Bwrol gave me some great advice once - it is somewhere in my thread. In short, he talks about finding the balance between wanting to make her "pay" and being a "doormat". Some where in the middle is where you want to be. Now is NOT the time to make her pay. At the same token, now is not the time for you to try and "make up" for all your past transgressions.
At the end of the day this is a business transaction. Separate the emotions from it.
Do what in your heart feels right. When in doubt a simple "I will think about it should suffice".
Let me ask you this...
Do you have a plan?
Do you know what you want to accomplish?
Stand strong my friend!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
