I find that we the LBS always struggle with thinking about what "we" do and how that may impact the MLCer.
The reality is that we should all (LBS's) be focused on OUR lives. On living the lives that we want. IF the MLCer cares to join us...well that's great. Cause in the end it is OUR choice.
Make this about YOU Alb. I agree with TAMF, stop trying to figure out if you do this or that how will your H deal with it and really just be YOU....
The new Alb...
Be true to you Alb - f*ck what I or anyone else tells you to do. Really this is your life.
Now get back to steppin or pole dancing
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans