one thing I have noticed in your last few posts is the fact that you are analyzing everything - which is normal. but it is something that my IC told me I was doing to much of and that over analyzing every move he makes is causing me anxiety - which is very true!
Somethings you just have to let nature take its course, do what feels right at the time. You have been equiped with enough MLC information that you are not going to distroy any progress that you have made. Sometimes doing what comes natural is the best thing for both of you.
Does that make sense? I know that both you and I are constantly wondering - what do I say, what do I do, am I doing what is best for me? for my D? And really...WHO THE HELL KNOWS?!!!!! Sometimes I feel like all I do is question myself and my actions. Sometimes I feel strong and confident that I am on the right path, and then suddenly I am filled with self doubt.
I know that is why we detach, but when they initiate - how do we know what to do? All of this constant analyzing is driving me nuts.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
