Pookie she confessed to an affair and said she wanted a divorce in the same sentence. I didn't originally say you had an affair, get out. She also tilde me this two days after leaving me on the grounds of I don't love u anymore, i feel like were roomates.
Pookie she confessed to an affair and said she wanted a divorce in the same sentence. I didn't originally say you had an affair, get out. She also tilde me this two days after leaving me on the grounds of I don't love u anymore, i feel like were roomates.
But then she kept apologizing and now wants to talk desperately.
If there is a boundary setting time, it would be now.
That's my point - you look like a A$$ if you just get all indignant without stating the consequences ahead if time. She needs to know why he is sideways with her.
Which is what I plan on doing later. I'm going to tell her that she hasn't been honest and kept her word on the OM and that I can't allow someone to stay in my life who continues to do these things.
Alright, what are some of the possible outcomes that I might have to face in this meeting. I want to make sure she doesn't do anything to catch me off guard so if anybody has some things that might pop up I'd appreciate it.
Alright, what are some of the possible outcomes that I might have to face in this meeting. I want to make sure she doesn't do anything to catch me off guard so if anybody has some things that might pop up I'd appreciate it.
You set the agenda and stick to it.
You will tell her why you decided to break off the contact. Be prepared for some waffling although I think she has been pretty sincere about her A.
What will you say or do if she offers you transparency to prove that her A is indeed over?
She's not going to offer transparency. I'll give you odds on that. She will say she is sorry, she didn't mean to hurt me, blah, blah. Shell say that she hasn't talked to him in months, which the last time I have proof is a text from July. I'm just going to say I can't have dishonest people in my life. I've got to much good for me going on now. If you want to continue to have contact with me you need to stop saying one thing and doing another. I've reached a point where if your not willing to go out of your way to be an honest trustworthy person then I'm ready to let you go from my life.
She's not going to offer transparency. I'll give you odds on that. She will say she is sorry, she didn't mean to hurt me, blah, blah. Shell say that she hasn't talked to him in months, which the last time I have proof is a text from July. I'm just going to say I can't have dishonest people in my life. I've got to much good for me going on now. If you want to continue to have contact with me you need to stop saying one thing and doing another. I've reached a point where if your not willing to go out of your way to be an honest trustworthy person then I'm ready to let you go from my life.
if you already know how she is going react and what she'll say and your reaction then why bother?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
