WAW EA told her to leave

[DangerDave]

Hey all - Well lawyer is telling me to stay put for now for a variety of reasons, so taking his advice at this point, I'm paying for it so I should respect it!

Kids are asking questions as teen's will and just staying neutral on the subject of why. S14 wanted to know if I was taking W off health ins - odd question for a child to ask, but I told him no and not to worry, w's in perfect health (physically anyway!) and it's a non issue at this point.

L has outlined several scenarios but will have to wait and see the actual petition before knowing what will be what. I am enlisting my own personal group of family and financial advisors that can help me sort out the eventual legal-ease that will be soon heading my way. I really don't want to be an island here with my only objective opinions coming from someone that's being paid to follow the rules and deal with W lawyer - I now have that circle of close friends that mimic the W's tea party with her and her 3 recently (under 1 yr) divorced girlfriends - fight fire with fire - just don't let them know how much fuel you have

Keeping things good at home with the kids, not being over the top with them but always positive engagement and fun - after homework! Also have the next four days and three nights with them all to myself and another dirt bike day this weekend too! Just have to find something this Sunday to go and do for myself - I have committed to having a me day every weekend when the W is home with them. It's sad (for the kids)that she's not working hard with the kids on "her" day to keep them engaged but that's not my problem.

In fact I have no problems at all, just goals on a journey that never ends, it's up to me on how twisty the road will be!


Thanks

DD