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Yes that is pretty unique. What is HE is doing about it? Can anything be done? Is this strictly due to finances?


I am not sure if he is doing anything about it - I believe this is what he wants to discuss (what there is to discuss I am not sure) when he says we need to sit down and talk about "Stuff". Yes, strictly due to finances. See, we have what we need to live but don't have extra, so to speak. I know, HE needs to figure something out.

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Well at least your going out – you see there is always a silver lining smile
I know, that's not going to stop either! I cherish my ME time. Honestly can't wait to have some drinks this weekend.

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I still suggest coming up with a monthly budget and asking for it once a month or better yet have him deposit it. It seems that he is self employed so he probably is juggling his cash flow, which no doubt changes from week to week so I can imagine this is tough.


Yes, very tough indeed.

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I never said you were a chaser and if I gave you that impression I am sorry.

No I didn't think that you implied that in any way whatsoever...I was just reiterating the fact. And it's one of the things about myself that I am proud of and seems to come easily to me.

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Jen –What happen with seeing a therapist together?


I can't even get in to see the guy by myself, he's totally booked. I am waiting for an opening with him.


Me-40 H-41
M: 10 yrs T: 12
S9/D5
ILYBINILWY - Separated: 01/06
Reconciled: 08/06
H depressed again: 02/10
Separated again: 9/17/10