If you argue or try to reason her out of her fear, all you're doing then is invalidating her and her fear.
I don't have to. "I wish I weren't such a fraidy cat" is an expression she used just today. But for the life of me, I can't imagine telling her anything she doesn't already know, so I sort of skipped responding to that one remark and focused on a positive in another sentence"
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-