Ugh. The claws came out once L talk started... Now he tells me he can only give me half of the monthly stipend he has been giving me since he had to hire a lawyer and needs to pay his brother back for the expenses of me moving etc. The word ridiculous comes to mind at this point... However, I held it together and didn't bite... Told him it was "OK, the money isn't important, that's why I have credit cards. Don't have the L yet since I don't have the money and he charges by the hour, just waiting for him to file and the process will begin." The next e-mail is a total switch and he says the money IS important to him, he just wanted to give me a heads-up etc. OMG, I can't believe how well the techniques work on him sometimes... he is heavily influenced by my response. Since that e-mail, he hasn't mentioned a L again and hasn't asked how to file etc. I feel like I am being tested to my limits... guess I need to raise my threshold as I am sure this is about to get worse. Couldn't do this without all of you...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
