However, our situation is unique in that, he doesn't have a "place" to live. He is sleeping at his retail store.
Yes that is pretty unique. What is HE is doing about it? Can anything be done? Is this strictly due to finances?
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So that leaves us with very few options at this point as far as the kids are concerned. It's not like he can pick them up and take them there, kwim?
I get what you mean. Your H will need to figure out how to provide some type of home for him and his kids.
This is where it get really interesting, he says he wants a D yet he probably cannot afford it. Jen, I am at a loss for words here. You really do have the patience of a saint and I believe YOU need to do what YOU think is right.
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Secondly, I don't have family other than my aunt and uncle.
Depending on how much I will have to pay in Alimony I will be available for baby sitting at 75 bucks an hour - just kidding…trying to inject a little humor here.
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When he comes to the house to hang out with them on a night that go out, that's the only option there is.
Well at least your going out – you see there is always a silver lining
And I usually do only communicate via text regarding financials.
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I still suggest coming up with a monthly budget and asking for it once a month or better yet have him deposit it. It seems that he is self employed so he probably is juggling his cash flow, which no doubt changes from week to week so I can imagine this is tough.
[quote]I'm not a chaser, I'm not one of those that will irritate the crap out of my husband because I call him all the time. I leave him alone.
I never said you were a chaser and if I gave you that impression I am sorry.
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As for eBay Eric, mostly kids clothes and shoes - lol!
Okay let me know if you plan to see things like…..sofa’s, completely furnished homes, cars, electronics, etc ROTFLMAO.
Jen –What happen with seeing a therapist together?
Look this stuff is hard and honestly I think you are doing the best you can.
(((hugs)))
You can do this.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
