Oh, and how you "feel" about it sounds weak. It's all about having principles, not "feelings". Following your feelings is how you two wound up in this mess to begin with.
To me, it's simple: if you want to date others, you get divorced. You don't do that kind of thing when you are married because it demonstrates weak character (integrity), and it's horribly disrespectful to boot.
Doing the right thing is a lot better than having to apologize if you are tempted to forget this.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
