not sure how I feel about that, and that's what I told her. She said, "I don't think you understand, John. Me coming back home is completely dependent on you. Right now I can't do that. But if things changed I'd be willing to try."
Look, dump the anger, but this ^^^^ is crap, and you should have called her on it.
Has she ever even apologized for cheating? That was boundary reminder time, IMHO: "I don't want to be married to somebody who thinks it is ever justifiable to cheat on me".
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-