I totally agree. That is really bad. Cruel in fact. I'm so sorry.
My husband wasn't aggressive sexually, he was the opposite. I think I can count on both hands the number of times we had sex in our entire marriage. He never ever wanted to have sex, usually rejected me when I did and when it did happen let's just say he was satisfied but I didn't feel much. He never seemed concerned about this. I eventually gave up and started sleeping on the couch. Never a kiss hello or good bye, never a cuddle on the couch.
But what you went through is awful I hope you get some therapy for that because it's a true violation!
