I get it, I know what I have to do. However, our situation is unique in that, he doesn't have a "place" to live. He is sleeping at his retail store. So that leaves us with very few options at this point as far as the kids are concerned. It's not like he can pick them up and take them there, kwim? It's not a home obviously. Secondly, I don't have family other than my aunt and uncle. So the option to have him drop off at my family's isn't any good either. When he comes to the house to hang out with them on a night that go out, that's the only option there is. He either stays there and watches them or it doesn't happen. He can't take them anywhere.
I'm just saying that I have very limited options when it comes to NC. And I pretty much have been following that when/if we talk on the phone. He always calls my cell to talk to the kids and from now on I will just hand the phone to them, if possible.
And I usually do only communicate via text regarding financials. I'm not a chaser, I'm not one of those that will irritate the crap out of my husband because I call him all the time. I leave him alone. When we separated the first time, I did just that...left him alone.
As for eBay Eric, mostly kids clothes and shoes - lol!
