Your next step is to get to happy alone. Enjoy every minute of every day.
There's the rub. I can't seem to get there somehow.
Happiness comes from inside. It comes from giving to others. It comes from focusing on the moment. It comes from turning off the brain chatter. If comes from facing your fears. It comes from enjoying life the way it is and not focusing on how you would like it to be.... Create your life. Surround yourself with thing that you enjoy and make you happy.
When I wake up in the morning, I take several deep breaths and focus how nice it feels. If it is light out, I have several pictures hanging in my room that I enjoy looking at. Sometimes I wake up next to a beautiful woman and enjoy the moment. If it is my time with the kids, I wake them up and we have snuggle time...
I enjoy shower time in the morning...the feeling of the warm water, I have 3 or four different smelling shampoo.. one smells like coconut and brings reminds me of the beach...I enjoy the beach...
Most mornings, I visit starbucks and small talk everyone. I know all the staff, lots of the customers...nice looking woman...Kids...
I drive 30 minutes to work and I stream pandora through my phone...Singing all the songs and feeling all the emotions...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
